FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS
JUST KEEP GOING!!!! hahahhaha
"It's a physical act. Like Playing Tennis"
I am not monogamous. Never have been and never will be. I really think it's highly over-rated. According to divorce statistics it's the #1 reason for divorce in America. I really can not wrap my brain around the thought of only having sex with one person my entire life. "Till Death Do Us Part" And yet this is included in one way or another in all wedding vows. And I repeat-it's the #1 reason for divorce. In my brain there are two types of sex. Sex with the person that I am totally in love with, could not live without, nor at times even breathe without. Sex with my other brain, my partner, my everything. We know each others wants, desires and needs so well that the pleasure derived from the act is the greatest feeling imaginable. And then there is the other SEX. Nothing more than raw lustful satisfaction. Twenty maybe thirty minutes of pleasure and I sure as hell wouldn't want to make him breakfast. It's over. That's it. Does this mean that I love my partner any less. I think not. This act was just two bodies enjoying each other. I can still live
without that body. I can still breathe without that body. And I sure as hell am not totally in love with that brain. That brain doesn't know my desires, my wants, my needs. I think it's society that has put these unrealistic demands on people. Taught in the Church, preached from the bible, talked about in every school, passed down from Grand Parents and Parents to the children. And the cycle continues. Ingrained in the very soul of Humanity. But I don't think it's fair. I don't think it's right. I do think it's gonna be interesting to see how the divorce rate changes as America changes. Once America allows all people to marry. Will the divorce rate go down. I think it will. I am not monogamous. Never have been and never will be. I am a Human Being.
Please do not judge me for i do not judge you.
Matthew 7:1, "Judge not that ye be not judged."
The Fabulous Tammy Wynette